Friend or enemy?

If you're the friend of my enemy, you're not my friend.

I can't believe how loosely words like "friend" and "love" are used. Do people know what these words mean anymore?

I remember when as kids if someone said or did something to hurt me, I would show my litle finger and say "katti" which means enemies and "dosthy" would mean friends, for which I would show index finger and the middle one. In those days, friendship meant a lot, enemies meant a lot - it was a life-defining moment.

Now friends mean people who are allowed to take advantage of you and enemies mean people who aren't allowed to. Or something crap like that.

So life and people have lost meaning and value today...or is it only for me?